Finding Strength in Surrender


Hello Reader,

Losing Control. Finding Grace.

There are moments when life tilts—gently or abruptly—and the stories we’ve held so tightly begin to fall apart. The plans unravel. The roles blur. The timeline disappears.

We call it losing control.

But what if every loss of control is an invitation?

A new threshold, a space designed to bring something entirely new into being?

What if surrender isn’t a giving up, but a softening into something unexpected and truer?

In surrender, we accept uncertainty. We meet ourselves without any mask.

As John O'Donahue writes,

"Some thresholds we choose. Most we don't. The question is, how do we cross the threshold worthily?"

In that bare space, a deeper truth can rise:
about who we are, about the world as it really is, about the invisible space between the two where something new may be born.

Surrender isn’t easy. But it may be the threshold into something sacred.

Today's Threshold Question

What would it mean to surrender—not as defeat, but as devotion to the truth?

Allow me to share a poem I wrote on surrender, a conversation with the ocean.

I asked the ocean

Teach me about surrender

The way the sand gives way

To the tide

The way the stones fight

For their place on the beach

Only to be swept out to

The unknown sea

To be turned and churned

Returning to the shore

A polished version of themselves.

The ocean replies

Throwing stones at my feet

Sand chafes my legs

Salt burns my eyes

Tears stream down my face

Melting back to the mother womb

Where it all began

Where it all ends

That is the way of life

She speaks wisely

Answering the unanswerable.

If you've been hovering in uncertainty, ricocheting between a deep yes and a protective no, let's have a conversation at the threshold.

Joining you in the unraveling,

P.S. Thresholds meet us at a time when our longing begins to speak of new possibilities and a deeper relationship with yourself and the sacred. If you're looking for a guide in this exploration, join me for Awakening at the Threshold, a private mentorship for profound change. More HERE.

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